Risk Taking And Assertiveness

They really did make me ponder the way i'm living my life now.....


"Those Form6 who gets 5A's, they do deserve being the tops but it's not because they're the most clever or something. They deserve it because they dare to go for it. Personally, i do think that i can, but i don't dare to take the risk last time(haha, he just found his balls after taking the exam)"
Should be about the same as what he said that day.. ^^...
i'd been counting back the things that i'd done after form5, the so-called-risks that i'd taken.... and.................... sigh.. yea, i'd been playing on the safe side since then.... maybe i should get into the water once in a while, XD, i'm sure i'll have friends to pull me up if i've any trouble... ^^...





"ah Chai ar, i think you should be more assertive... when you don't like to do something, just say it. if you don't like doing it hor, but you still do it, the one who ask you to do it will not think that he's wrong he might think that you should really do what he said"
XD... being spat directly at the face... haha.. when i was being told, i was like, "wadda hell?? am i really that not assertive?".. but yea, after pondering abit, sometimes(er, maybe most of the times) i found it hard to reject when people ask me to do something. but, XD, i've a new policy now, maybe i can start to be abit more assertive(in the sense of tolakking people's demand) - if you boleh say NO when i ask you to do something, then of cos i can say NO when i dun wan to do watever you ask. XP...


P/S thanks to those trigger me to think bout it.. XD

TO A BETTER ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!