"if you're going out with a group of your friends, how big would you like your group to be???"
I'd remember someone asking me this question a few years back and of cos the answer was "any number"... ^^.. but now, the number would be more than 4.....Reasons?? Easy, the more the merrier, and you're likely to get less bored by the conversations... Let's say you're going out with 2-3 of your friends, and the conversation is being dragged into topics like WORKs and ACTIVITIEs that you're not involve in(can't blame them, cos i'm the one who din wanna join). It isn't bad if the things they're discussing are entertainment things(eg football or snooker), at least it won't be as boring as those work-related-things-that-i'm-not-involed-in... And then, you're left alone entertaining yourself with whatever you have...
In a bigger group, you can have choices. When 2-3 of them is talking about something you don't understand, you have like, another 7 of them to talk to??? simple maths.. ^^..
though i know there're cons in being in going in a bigger group, now, i totally feel the pros outweigh them alot(unless the smaller groups have the same interest as me). XD..
*the question just popped up when i'm walking back to kt alone.. XD
2 comments:
it depends on purpose of hanging out is to
1) catch up w a real close buddy meaning u'd want to reli talk to the person the whole time (then small group better)
or
2) just hangout for fun no reason. then of coz big groups are funner. :D u said it! (y were u walking back to kt alone??)
2) for fun.....
went back for my weight-losing activity... =)
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